Confession and Prayer
“For your name’s sake, O Lord, pardon my guilt, for it is great.” (Psalm 25:11)
We usually do not like admitting that we are wrong. In most situations, we tend to cast ourselves in the best possible light. We may even stretch the truth to make ourselves look better.
Yet, when we come to God in prayer those tendencies must go out the window. Our guilt before God is great. There is no sugarcoating it. We pray as guilty sinners in need of God’s grace.
Therefore, confession should occupy a regular place in our prayers, both personally in our daily prayers and corporately as a church. When we pray alone and when we pray together, we should confess our sins to the Lord.
In Psalm 25:6–11, David provides us with powerful words of confession that should inform and shape our own prayers. We learn several key principles about confession from his words.
First, confession appeals to the mercy of God. In Psalm 25:6–7, David cries out for God to remember his mercy, not David’s sins. He recalls how God’s faithful love and mercy have been from of old. God’s revealed character is the basis for David’s prayer.
God is good and upright, and, therefore, he instructs sinners and leads the humble (25:8–9). The holiness of God does not merely crush sinners. God in his holiness heals humble sinners who confess their sins. He leads them to the proper path.
Thus, confession is not based on mere wishful thinking about what we hope God might do for us. Confession is rooted in God’s faithful, holy, merciful character that has been manifest to his people from ancient times. It flows out of who we know God to be, just as he revealed himself to Moses as “a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness, keeping steadfast love for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin,” (Ex 34:6–7a).
For us as Christians, our confession appeals to the mercy of God revealed in Jesus. When God sent his Son into the world, he remembered mercy. He was keeping his promise to remember the sins of his people no more (Jer 31:34). We can confess our sins and know that God is faithful and righteous to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, because Jesus is the sacrifice for our sins (1 John 1:9, 2:2).
At the same time, confession never downplays our guilt before God. While confession focuses on the merciful character of God, we should not think that this reduces the significance of our guilt or that our sin doesn’t matter. We seek God’s forgiveness because we know he is merciful and our guilt is great.
Our guilt before God is far-ranging, varied, and deep. It taints more than we realize, shows up in more ways than we care to admit, and is found in the deepest caverns of our hearts. We are guilty before God in the ways we’ve failed to obey him. Every day, we fail to love him with all our heart, soul, and might. We may not do wrong to our neighbors, but we also do not always love them as we ought.
We look at God’s Law, and we see our guilt. Idols arise in our hearts. We speak a half-truth to a coworker. Lust fills our heart. We take God’s name on our lips, while living in a way that dishonors him. Pride taints our actions and attitudes. We seek revenge, and we covet what is not ours.
If we take time to truly examine our hearts, it won’t take long for us to join David’s prayer: pardon my guilt, for it is great. Thus, if confession doesn’t form a regular part of our prayers, it may mean that we don’t really know our own hearts.
A British pastor named Thomas Brooks once encouraged believers to “make it your business to study Christ, his Word, your own hearts, Satan’s plots, and eternity—more than ever.”[1] We are often encouraged to study Christ and his Word, but what about our own hearts? Do we know what is going on within us? When we take time to study our hearts, one of our first impulses will be to seek the God of mercy, for our guilt is great.
Confession appeals to the mercy of God as it feels the weight of our guilt before him.
Confession also seeks the glory of God, not merely escape from feeling our guilt. David appeals to the glory of God’s name when he confesses his sin. He cries out to God: pardon my guilt for your name’s sake! He seeks the glory of God, not merely an escape from guilt. David’s prayer of confession is a deeply God-centered prayer.
When we confess our sins, we can base our request on the glory of God. We can pray: Forgive our sins for the glory of your name! We desire for God to be glorified in the forgiveness of our sins. Our chief end in seeking God’s forgiveness is that he would be praised and seen as glorious.
We seek God’s forgiveness so that God would get all the honor and praise in the revelation of his righteous, merciful character. We want people to see and praise God’s mercy.
Confession is not merely an escape mechanism to avoid feelings of guilt. It is not a self-centered aspect of prayer. When we confess our sins, we should express a desire for God to be praised. He is glorified in forgiving sinners because he shows that though our guilt is great, his grace is greater. He gets all the honor and praise.
So next time you go to pray, bring your sin before the Lord. Seek his mercy. Don’t gloss over your guilt. Confess your sins for the glory of the God.
[1]Thomas Brooks, Precious Remedies Against Satan’s Devices, 13.